Families whose relatives laid to rest in graves at risk from coastal erosion state that indecision on how best to tackle the problem is causing them avoidable anguish about the eternal homes of their departed family.
The council have identified three burial grounds in the villages of Happisburgh, Mundesley, and Trimingham as being at risk of being engulfed by the sea in the coming decades.
A recent report on the situation details a range of options, from taking no action to exhuming remains and reburying them in safer locations. Authorities say it is for the community to determine how to move forward.
“Right now we’re in limbo. It causes me distress. My parents intended this to be their final resting place, but it isn’t going to be because of the encroaching sea.”
Estimates indicate at least a portion of one churchyard could be claimed by the waves in the next 80 years, but some residents fear it will happen far earlier. “I think it’s got less than 20 years, if you consider what’s happened in the last 30 years,” one said.
One resident recalled a childhood visit to the nearby village of Eccles, which has largely vanished into the sea, along with its church and graveyard.
“You could see people’s bones,” she said. “Certain people hold this romantic idea that people’s remains will just get carried away to the ocean. That is not the case. People will collect remains as souvenirs and go plundering graves looking for treasures. It’s completely undignified.”
“I fear that the same thing that befell at Eccles will happen here and there’ll be bones on the beach. I would feel disgusted by that.”
Along the shoreline is situated the burial plot of a former paratrooper who died while working abroad. His mother said she lost sleep after discovering her son’s final plot might one day be moved.
“It truly disturb me to consider this may not remain his lasting home,” she said. “For us it’s an important place to go.”
In her view, new burials should cease but says it is premature to exhume current plots. “My preference for now is to do nothing and closely monitor, but an early decision needs to be made when a critical moment has been reached.”
The lack of consensus over when and how to tackle the problem has left bereaved families feeling exasperated and worried.
Several families are calling for more coastal protections to delay the inevitable erosion and to permit funerals to proceed for now. Others argue the time for moving graves is approaching.
“The situation is very emotional,” a family member stated. “The council’s report was thorough, but now there’s confusion about how it is implemented. And everybody is avoiding responsibility over who is responsible.”
A coastal manager said the graveyards were owned and managed of the local diocese. “Ultimately it is up to them to decide the direction to take. Our role is here to help support them through that journey with residents.”
It was also stated there was ample time to weigh all the options. “We are talking decades before it starts to be lost.”
“There is no unified opinion on what should happen yet. It requires good local conversations to find the appropriate answers for each village.”
The prospect of losing the historic sites was labeled one of “profound sorrow for the local community,” but church representatives also spoke of a belief in resurrection, offering a spiritual perspective on the temporal loss of hallowed earth.
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